I was diagnosed with malignant melanoma under my thumbnail on July 21, 2021. For those of you who have been tracking my cancer journey, you know that I am a surgeon. I then became a patient and began documenting my journey in this blog. After undergoing surgery, I completed a yearlong treatment plan of chemoimmunotherapy infusions. I had my last infusion on June 29, 2022. This blog recounts my story with a focus on a surgeon who became a patient. It also highlights melanoma awareness. Additionally, it explores the intersection of medicine and faith.
The great news is that my scans this past November (right hand and arm, chest, abdomen, pelvis) revealed no evidence of any recurrent cancer! My next round of scans and bloodwork is in May, 2025. I am blessed to have survived 3 years, having been told my 3 year survival rate was as low as 40 percent! I still remain high risk until year 5, when my prognosis will improve.
I was remiss in waiting so long to update my blog. This past Fall, the busyness of life seemed to take over. I had several trips to medical meetings, some vacation, a wedding of which I was the officiant in Dallas, and then the holidays. Reflecting back on this past year, I realized that it is very easy to fall back into the busyness of life and slip away from work, life, and health balance.
Let me go back to the summer of 2021 before my cancer diagnosis. The absolute craziness of the life of a busy surgeon was taking its toll. I was in the peak of my career, performing as many operations as ever. My hands were so overworked from operating and typing that I started getting trigger fingers and had multiple hand surgeries to repair them. In addition to being President of our large medical practice, I was also Chairman of the Board of Trustees of my medical center; a consultant for a large medical device company lecturing and traveling all over the country; Chairman of the Deacon Body at Brook Hollow Baptist Church in Nashville, Tennessee; singing in the church choir; leading a young adult small group at our house on Sunday nights; helping my father manage our horse farm; and lastly training for a triathlon! Whoa! And why? Was I getting greedy? Was I happy? Was I spending enough time listening to God and His plan for my life? I stopped…reflected….and actually prayed about it. Let me tell you something…be careful for what you pray! I prayed God would somehow slow me down and help me find some balance in my life. If you go back and read or have read the very first couple of my blogs in 2021, you know what happened. God did answer my prayers to slow down! He did it …His way…not mine! I was diagnosed with a deadly melanoma under my thumbnail that resulted in a partial thumb amputation, a year of chemo, and the process of learning how to operate again! Be careful for what you pray!
That very day that I got the depressing call from my pathologist about my diagnosis, something else happened, likely providential. Pastor Jack Foster is my dear friend, neighbor, and one of my spiritual mentors. Unbeknownst to me, he also had been worried that I had been going too hard in life. That very day, as he was driving by my house, he felt something tug at his heart strings; he slowed his vehicle down; and he almost pulled into my driveway to confront me. He felt called by the Lord to intervene. Interestingly enough, I called him shortly thereafter with my devastating medical diagnosis. He now has walked with me on this cancer journey. Together, we have felt the process of genuine sanctification taking place in my life. God has also given me a testimony and maybe this platform to encourage others.
As I reflect on 2024, I realize that the busyness of life is creeping back in. I am now a national officer in the American Academy of Otolaryngology. I am again one of the Deacons at Brook Hollow Baptist Church. My work load is closer to the busy old days. All of these are good activities in and of themselves. As I get further removed from that year of treatment, I feel myself gaining confidence in my prognosis. In turn, I feel myself losing that sense of humility and selflessness that weighed upon me heavily going through treatment. In 2025, I am challenging myself to strive for a healthy diet, exercise, and sleep. I plan to read more and try to spend more time in prayer. I have always made time and will continue to do so for my wife, kids, and 4 beautiful grandchildren. If you are in the same situation, I ask you to re-assess your life and schedule. Prioritize your Heavenly Father, your family, your friends, and your health! Life can change quickly. Be content with today. And don’t waste another day!



















